Wisdom; ​Bn Sulayman and Shaikh’s discussion that can move your senses to RIGHT direction .

​Bn Sulayman and Shaikh discussion that can move your sense to RIGHT direction .

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Bn Sulayman :  Salamu alekum Shaikh 

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Shaikh: Wa alaykum salam habibi Sulayman. 

How are you doing? 

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Bn Sulayman: Am doing fantastically alright Shaikh. 

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Shaikh: AlhAmdulilah 

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Bn Sulayman : Shaikh, I want to get married and preferably to a fair lady or white lady. 

Shaikh; Masha Allah. …….

(Silent for 5 minutes (then spoke); Bn Sulayman my Son, I have an advice and a secret to tell you. All, for you!

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Bn Sulayman: Am all Ears Shaikh. 

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Shaikh: I don’t think I will give you these two Gifts . Am giving it to somebody else. 

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Bn Sulayman : But why, shaikh? 

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Shaikh: I am giving the two pears gifts to somebody who is fair or white in complexion.  Unfortunately you are black. 

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Bn Sulayman; shaikh please, I need that advice. I need the gift. There is nothing you’ve offered to me that has ever being a burden. All are musk of Allah’s mercies. 

Please, I need it. It isn’t my fault that I am dark skin. Allah created me like this. Shaikh, my last Bayan class of tafsir with was in surah Hujjurat 49:13.

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Shaikh : Now, you have given your self an answer from revelation and logic. 

My Gifts are ;

1. It is true you didn’t create yourself and can never recreate except Allah. 

So you shouldn’t be held responsible, love or disliked because of your physical characteristics. 
2. Do not by any way or the other, value somebody more because of their complexion. 
If a man in black do you Evil and he was burnt accidentally to death, will you hate him because of his skin colour or because of his actions? 

And if he does you good just like those light in complexion like al binos, Fair and white people, will you like them for their skin colour or their actions? 

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Bn Sulayman: I will hate and like people not because of their skin colour which they have no ” choice about ” but for their ACTIONS AND DISPOSITIONS, I will hate or like them (people) for. 

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Shaikh, my son, I gave you these advises because of your actions (that fascinated me) and not because you are Dark skin. 

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Shaikh: Bn Sulayman my Son, Prioritize Good character, diligence in the Religion, kind hearted characteristics over   body shapes, colours and illusions. 

If you want a Muslim lady who is from your ethnicity, has dominant external characteristics, of a desired complexion and fluent in a specific lingua of your choice, ALLAH MAY GIVE YOU THIS KIND OF PERSON, BUT SHE MAY NOT HAVE GOOD CHARACTER, THE DEEN (ISLAM), KIND HEARTED NESS, SELFLESSNESS ; Which are the keys for jannah. 

IF you want to marry a lady from your ethnic group, white or dark preferably, tall, wealthy and intelligent…….

Is normal to have inclination to any of this but it is Islamic and Godly to pray to Allah to bless you with a wife (or husband as for the females) who will complete their Deen, be their helper and companion. If you open your heart to this, Allah may give you this and the characteristics of natural inclination or desires you mentioned above because you have chosen Allah’s mercies over your desires. Also note, that you may also not get your desire (natural inclination) , except the Islamic spouse you prayed for. Say AlhAmdulilah in both case as Allah is testing you already. 

You have seen my wife, Ummu fataa, she is of the same age with me, 87 years. Both of us are on borrowed time. 

You know what? I didn’t love her and she didn’t love me for any physical characteristics (colour, wealth, speech etc) but for the Deen, good character , kindness etc. 

If we both loved each other because we were once glittering in our white skin, then by now or before now when those characteristics are fading away, or had faded away long ago, I would have divorced her and marry a young lady whose complexion or wealth or any other is still intact because of their young age. But because I married her with the good manners and her diligence in Islam, I have never stopped loving her or seeing her as Beautiful as she were 6 and half decade ago. 

My son, what do say Bn Sulayman? 

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Bn Sulayman : I gained wisdom beyond boundaries and even what you may not have spoken about. My dua Shaikh, is; may Allah grant me a spouse with the Deen and best of Islamic characters

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Shaikh: Masha Allah, also tell your sisters to pray like this. 

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Bn Sulayman : May Allah reward you with Good, Shaikh. I will be on my way now. 

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Shaikh: Aameen. my regards to your parents. 

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Written and composed By Bn Sulayman 

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